Knowing how to ride a suction cup dildo is going to give you orgasms like you have never had before – trust me, I know!

You might think it looks pretty easy, but to get the most enjoyment from riding your toy, you need to know a few skills.

In this article, I will show you some of the tricks I have learned from being in the adult entertainment industry.

If you have ever wondered how those women can manage to squirt almost on cue, keep reading and in no time I reckon you’ll be doing the same.

Keep reading, I’m going to show you everything you need to know when you ride a suction cup dildo.

How to Ride a Suction Cup Dildo

How to Ride a Suction Cup Dildo

Why Ride a Suction Cup Dildo

Suction cup dildos are extremely flexible and are available in an enormous range of textures, colors, and sizes. You can attach your dildo to almost any flat surface in your home and ride it like a boss! It makes an exciting change from your standard handheld type of dildo.

Remember how you felt the last time you were on top of your man. Your legs spread, his cock deep inside you – well a suction cup dildo can have the same effect!

When you are riding a dildo with a suction cup, it just feels better (and deeper) than if you were lying on your back and using a handheld dildo.

When you’re thrusting down on a suction cup style of dildo, your hands are free to rub your clit, squeeze your boobs, or do any of those other things you know you like to do!

Vixen Mustang VixSkin Bright Realistic Suction Cup Dildo 6.5 Inch
Vixen Mustang VixSkin Bright Realistic Suction Cup Dildo 6.5 Inch from lovehoney.com

It doesn’t always have to be solo play. You could have your suction cup dildo mounted on a wall, rocking backward and forwards, and giving your man a blow job at the same time. That’s got to spice up your relationship for sure.

If you have ever contemplated a threesome but haven’t quite got there yet, you can have a practice run with your dildo acting as the ‘the third man’. Try attaching it to your bedhead so you can be riding it and at the same time, could be giving your boyfriend a blow job. In my business, we call this a spit roast!

Want to know what double penetration feels like? Your suction cup dildo will be your new best friend! Put it in your mouth, ass, or vagina and get your lover to put his cock in a different hole. Yep, you might be thinking all that sounds a bit gross – but don’t knock it until you have tried it!

Your suction cup dildo might be bigger than your usual partner and that in itself will make your ride so much more enjoyable.

Suction cup dildos also come in a huge variety of shapes and sizes. Some are incredibly realistic with veins, circumcised heads, and almost realistic texture. I can guarantee you there is something for everybody.

Set the Mood for Riding

If I want to orgasm, I always find I have more of a chance if I get myself a little aroused before using any of my dildos, especially the suction cup ones

If you are like me, when you’re having sex with your partner, it helps to be ‘in the mood ‘ before he just dives right into you. The same applies when you’re riding your dildo.

Try exploring some of your favorite erogenous lady bits before you start using your dildo and you will have a much better experience. Perhaps just rub the dildo against your clit or labia without inserting it. A bit of teasing goes a long way in building up the sexual tension required for explosive orgasms.

Word of warning, if you are trying out a new suction cup dildo, it is a good idea to have a trial run by yourself before using it with your partner.

If it is wider or longer than what you are used to, a bit of experimenting by yourself to see what you can handle is always a good idea.

This is especially important if you are trying anal for the first time. (You can thank me later!)

Use Plenty of Lube

Bottle of Water Based Lube

I know when we are young, many of us have wetter vaginas than Niagara Falls but as you know ladies, that isn’t always the case is it?

Take it from an expert, you will need to use lube to get the most enjoyment when you are riding a suction cup dildo. The easier it slides in and out, the better it will feel.

You might also find you can take a bigger size than you first imagined and this will excite you more than you ever thought possible. There is something strangely satisfying about watching your vagina devour a large dildo. Not to mention how much this will turn on your partner.

At some point, you and more than likely your partner, are going to want to try anal. There are smaller-sized suction cup dildos that are specifically designed for anal use if you don’t think you can handle the normal size.

Whatever size you use, lube is an absolute must when engaging in anal play. A good quality water-based lube is essential.

There is even a specially made lube for anal sex and dildo use. It is thicker and lasts longer than normal water-based lubes. It is the ‘go-to’ lube used in the adult entertainment industry.

What Riding Angle Will Work Best for You?

Riding Horizontally

Riding a suction cup dildo horizontally

Riding a suction cup dildo horizontally means you will attach the dildo to a flat vertical surface like a wall, desk, filing cabinet, mirror, window, etc (I’ll get more into those positions later).

You place your knees on either side of the dildo and then you can gently (or forcefully once you get used to it) slide yourself up and down on it.

The advantage of this position is that you can easily determine the depth and angle of penetration. It’s also very easy to see what you are doing.

This position leaves your hands completely free so they can be used to tease your other erogenous zones.

If you’re into doggy position sex, riding your dildo like this will work exceptionally well for you.

When I’m on my knees giving my boyfriend a blow job, I often ride my suction cup dildo at the same time.

Riding Vertically

So if you want to ride your suction cup dildo vertically, you’re going to have to attach it to a flat horizontal surface like a floor, stool, etc.

This usually means you are going to be supporting yourself on your knees, leaving your hands and mouth to venture elsewhere.

You can adjust the depth of penetration by raising and lowering your hips. Eventually you’ll want to push down as far as you possibly can to get the maximum penetration depth and the enjoyment that comes with it.

Best Dildo Riding Style

There is no single way that will work best for everyone. Discovering the best way to ride your suction cup dildo is an ongoing learning experience (and a whole lot of fun at the same time!) Also, the type and size of the dildo you have chosen to ride will determine just how big an orgasm you will have.

I recommend you start with these two dildo riding techniques.

Shallow Penetration

By not going too deep too soon, you can use the head of the dildo to stimulate and tease your clit and g Spot. Start slowly and then speed up your thrusting but keep it shallow. Since the head of the dildo is likely to be the widest part, by initially inserting only the head, your clit will love you!

Deep Thrusting

Ok by this point you are going to be aching to see just how far you can take it. You know this is what you really want.

The idea here is to thrust down on your dildo as far as you can comfortably take it. I like to push the boundaries a bit and see just how far I can go. My boyfriend loves watching me get off doing this.

Start with slow, deep thrusts and then increase the pace to whatever works best for you. Depending on the size and length of your dildo, you are sure to have a G spot orgasm in no time.

Quick Tip: Tease yourself a bit, alternate between fast and slow thrusts, deep and shallow thrusts and you will be amazed at how good it feels. (Trust me, I’m a professional!)

14 Best Places to Ride your Dildo

Bedroom Wall

Whilst standing, place just the tip of your dildo into your vagina or anus

Back up to the wall and attach the suction cup to the wall surface (This positions your dildo at the correct height for your body.)

Move forward and the dildo should remain attached to the wall. Cover the dildo tip with enough water-based lube so that it will slide easily in out and out of you.

Bend over forwards and slowly push yourself back onto the dildo so that it easily slips into your vagina or anus.

Put your hands behind your back as though they were handcuffed and slowly stand up.

This will simulate you being fucked from behind in a semi-standing position. One of my personal favorites I must admit.

Another option is to get on your hands and knees. Place your suction cup dildo just inside your vagina or anus and back up to the wall whilst on your knees. (This will again guarantee the dildo is at the right height for your body.)

Apply the amount of lube you think you will need and you will be good to go!

This position is really good if you want to simulate being fucked doggy style. In some ways, it is even better than the real thing since you get to control how just far it goes into you and how fast!

Uncarpeted floor (Tiles)

Probably one of the easiest and most common places to ride a suction cup dildo is on a hard floor surface. Tiles are perfect but any smooth hard surface will do.

Pick a spot where you have plenty of room to move. If you need to, have a cabinet or something heavy to hang on to if you think you might not be able to balance.

If you’re feeling a bit adventurous or like to be watched, an outdoor tiled balcony might just work for you!

Make sure the floor is clean so that the suction cup will stay firmly in place. Wet the inside of the cup slightly to get a better seal.

Apply enough lube to your dildo to ensure it slides easily.

Kneel or squat over the dildo and lower yourself slowly onto it. The same technique applies whether you are using it vaginally or anally.

From this angle, you can ride your suction cup dildo by moving up and down at whatever speed and depth work best for you.

Depending on the size and type of dildo you have chosen, your orgasms will come and come and come!

Shower Wall

Riding a suction cup dildo in the shower

Riding your dildo in the shower is great if you like a bit of privacy. If you live in a busy household, it’s probably one of the only places where you are not likely to be interrupted.

You’ve got the smooth surface of the tiles or shower screen glass, and lots of running water. If using the glass as a mounting point, make sure it is firm enough to cope with the pounding you are likely going to be giving it. Otherwise, stick with the tiled walls.

If you’re keen to try anal, this is the best place to try it. If you don’t wish to go through the whole anal douching process the running water will wash away any telltale signs.

Since you will be more likely to be standing in this situation, a suction cup dildo that turns upward is going to give you the best bang for your buck!

However, if you are trying anal, particularly for the first time, a thinner and straighter dildo would probably work better for you.

Porn stars make it look easy, but I can tell you from personal experience there is a lot of setting up you don’t see that goes on before a scene is filmed.

Getting the right height may take a couple of attempts but a bit of trial and error will be well rewarded in the end – so to speak!

My method as I have mentioned earlier is to just insert the tip of your dildo first. Back up to the wall which will give you the correct height for the suction cup and lightly attaché it. Turn around and make sure the suction cup on the dildo is firmly attached to the shower wall and you are good to go!

Bend over and back onto the dildo. Then slowly stand up straight whilst riding the dildo backward and forwards.

It might well be the longest and best shower you have ever had!

Bed Headboard

Rising a Suction Cup Dildo on headboard

This position can be a bit tricky! You will need to have a very smooth headboard for the suction cup dildo to stay in position.

As you can see, my friend Sarah has perfected the art of what she calls Headboard sex. I won’t tell you where her mouth was but let’s just say if you are going to be riding a suction cup dildo, your boyfriend is going to love this position.

Window

I have to admit to trying this more than once! My boyfriend and I were in a hotel on the 10th floor in a room that had floor-to-ceiling windows. I attached my suction cup dildo to the window, just above the floor, and rode it so that my butt cheeks were hitting the window pane.

My boyfriend loved the idea that people on the street below could figure out what was happening but weren’t able to see enough for us to be identified in the lobby later. I loved that he got off on seeing me do this.

Mirror

Similarly, mirrors can give you a different view of what you look like when you’re riding your dildo. A full-length dressing mirror or those mirrored sliding wardrobe doors you thought you never needed, can both be used to give you and your lover some extra visual stimulation.

Riding a Suction cup dildo on a Mirror

If your partner is away and you’re up for some naughty face time, combining your phone with the mirror will give him or her a view almost as good as being there.

Feel like being in your own ‘adult movie’ – (it can be a lot of fun) why not record yourself riding your dildo whilst it is suction cupped to the mirror. Your hands are free to hold and move the phone camera to whatever angle you think works best and the mirror will provide angles you may never have seen yourself! Definitely worth trying, your partner will love watching you over and over again!

Wooden Chair

You can use any regular wooden or steel chair with no armrests and preferably one with a back on it.

Attach your suction cup dildo to the chair in a position that will enable you to straddle it.

Face the back of the chair and lower yourself down onto your lubed-up dildo.

Use the back of the chair as a support to take some of the weight off your thighs.

Once you have the position sorted, you can ride your dildo as gently or forcefully as you want, until you orgasm!

Toilet Seat

riding a Suctoin cup dildo on toliet seatn

The number one advantage when you ride a suction cup dildo on the toilet seat is that you tend to get more privacy.

If you live in a busy house, perhaps with children, the toilet is usually the one place in the house where no one is going to bother you.

Toilets are usually pretty solidly constructed. They have a plastic seat that is perfect for attaching the suction cup on the dildo.

Not surprisingly, toilets are usually set at the perfect height for sitting.

You can ride your dildo either facing the cistern or facing forward as you would normally sit on the loo.

Just remember to lube up first and with a washbasin usually close by you can clean up and no one will even know the delicious pleasure you have just experienced!

Stool

Riding a suction cup dildo on a chair

I’m talking about a small circular stool here, max width say 10 -12 inches.

The main advantage of this one is that with a round stool you suction cup your dildo to the center of the stool and use it from any angle you wish.

Stools tend to be a little higher than chairs so you will find the angle is different and that you can possibly go much deeper.

Bathtub Positions

Bathtub position no 1:

This is the first of three bathtub-related positions you can try.

Riding Dildo on Lip of Bath

Place the suction cup of your dildo on the lip of the bath (the bit you step over to get into the bathtub.)

Add a bit of lube and then straddle your dildo with one leg in the bathtub and the other on the floor.

The height should be just right and not put too much strain on your thighs. I find if you push down against the lip of the bath with your hands, this takes a bit of the weight off your hips and you can ride your dildo in comfort for much longer.

If you like to squirt, you can easily make sure you squirt in the bathtub so cleaning up after you have orgasmed is easy peasy!

Bathtub position no 2:

This particular bathtub position is very relaxing.

Place your dildo on the end of the bath approximately level with your vagina or anus.

Put enough warm water in the bath to cover the bottom of the bath but not so much as it goes higher than the level of the dildo.

Lay down and put your legs over the edge of the bath in the same way as you would put them over the shoulders of your partner.

Use your legs to slide yourself on and off your dildo.

Bathtub position no 3:

Attach your dildo to the end of the bath.

Riding a suction cup dildo in the bath

Next, get on all fours doggy style and back up onto the dildo,

By riding your dildo back and forwards you will be coming in no time.

Wooden Door

If you have walls that are made from plasterboard and painted then your dildo may not stay attached to the wall at all. So this is where doors come in very handy.

You will need a fairly solid door, the heavier the better and it will need to have a smooth surface.

You can either put the dildo just above floor height and use it doggy style or mount it at standing height and use it as you would on any wall.

Thin Strip of Wall

Suction cup dildo on narrow wall

This position is one of the best in my opinion.
It works around the fact that you have a strip of wall sticking out from a part of your house. The advantage is that you can put your legs further back than if you were up against a wall or door and that gives you far more opportunity to come.

During a Blow Job

This is one of my favorite positions to use a suction cup dildo.

Riding Dildo while giving blow job


For vertical use, you’ll need a flat smooth floor (tiles or similar). Kneel in front of your man and put some pillows under your knees if you think you are going to be there for a while!

Attach the dildo to the floor and position yourself over it. Ride it slowly and keep the same rhythm moving up and down your dildo as you demonstrate your oral skills on your partner.

I am pretty sure you will get as much out of this position as your partner.

Alternatively, you can attach your dildo to a solid surface so that it is horizontal.

Whilst on all fours back up onto the dildo and have your partner either lie on the floor in front of you or have him sit in a chair.

As you move backward and forwards on the dildo your mouth will move up and down on his penis. This has to be one of the most satisfying ways to give a blowjob – for both parties!

Simulate a Threesome

Ever wondered what it would be like to be giving a blow job and be fucked from behind at the same time. Come on – you know you have at least thought about it!

If you’re not quite ready to experience a threesome then your suction cup dildo is the perfect substitute.

Mount your dildo on a wall or mirror at about mouth height when you are o all fours.

Have your partner behind you ready to take your butt or vag. Pretend your dildo is the second cock in the room (shouldn’t be hard as many look very real). See how much of it you can take in your mouth while your partner thrusts into you.

My boyfriend finds this the biggest turn-on!

So What is a Suction Cup Dildo?

Ok! so you’ve just read all about how to ride a suction cup dildo but what exactly are they?

Simply put, a suction cup dildo is essentially a normal dildo but manufactured so that it has a solid suction cup attached to its base. Big deal I hear you say, but this seemingly small difference opens up so many new possibilities.

Imagine a cock that can be attached to almost any hard surface in your home. The floor, walls, chairs, shower screen, windows – the list is endless.

Instead of having to guide the dildo with your hands, you are free to ‘explore’ other erogenous zones of yours and your partner’s body

Like normal dildos, suction cup dildos come in a vast array of sizes, shapes, and colors. Many are realistic in the sense they are textured, often have testicles and some even have wrinkles.

Doc Johnson The D Perfect D Dual Density Realistic Dildo
Doc Johnson Dual Density Realistic Dildo from lovehoney.com

There are thinner versions for anal play, thicker styles for vaginas, and shapes designed to stimulate the prostate or g spot. Some special fantasy designs are made so thick they would make your eyes water! Yet I know women (and some men) who see this super-sized dildo as a ‘challenge’ and keep trying until they can accommodate the whole thing.

Suction cup dildos tend to be made from materials that are light in weight. Plastic, rubber, and silicone are commonly used because the dildo needs to be able to remain attached to walls, etc without falling or sliding off. Some of the more expensive models are made from a type of gel which gives them a more realistic look and feel. This is often referred to as Cyberskin.

Can Suction Cup Dildos improve your deep-throating skills?

Let’s face it ladies there isn’t a man on the planet that wouldn’t want you to be able to deep throat him.

The ability to take his entire cock in your mouth, ‘balls deep’ as we say in the industry, is a must-have skill.

I know it might seem impossible at first but with perseverance and practice it can be done – trust me.

Mount your suction cup dildo on a vertical surface at mouth height and just keep at it, until you can overcome your gag reflex.

My friend Jack has written a book on how to master this without gagging and throwing up.

Kelly obviously bought Jack’s guide on how to give blow jobs and I think you would have to agree she has perfected the art of deep throating.

Kelly
Men love Kelly!

Try a Strap on Harness

VONDAGE STRAPON HARNESS, LOW RISE
Vondage Strapon Harness from stockroom.com

Nearly all suction cup dildos can be matched with a large variety of strap-on harnesses. These create a whole new level of options for you to try with your lover.

Ladies who love ladies can experience what all your heterosexual friends go on about, by using a suction cup dildo mounted in a harness. Might be worth experimenting with just to see what all the fuss is about concerning penises.

If you are not into anal sex but your partner is constantly wanting you to try it, buy yourself a strap-on harness, put your suction cup dildo in it and fuck their butt and see how they like it. In my experience, there are a lot of guys who actually do like it and will want to make it a regular part of your sex play!

This type of play is called pegging. the harness has an O ring in it which your dildo slips through. If you already have a suction cup dildo, make sure any harness you buy has an o ring that will enable your dildo to be inserted through it.

The dildo should sit comfortably against the wearer of the harness and enable hands-free action.

FAQ

Fun Fact

50.2 percent of women use Dildos

32.9 percent of men use dildos

United States National Library of Medicine

How to Ride a Suction Cup Dildo – My Summary

Pick a suction cup dildo that is the right size and shape for you

Lube up regardless of whether you are going vaginally or anally (absolutely essential if you are going anal)

Decide if you are going to ride your suction cup dildo vertically or horizontally

Start slowly and build up to a pace, depth, and angle that works best for your body.

Clean up the results of the mind-blowing orgasms I know you will have.

You can thank me later!


Kandi

Kandi Anderson

With over 10 years experience in all aspects of the adult entertainment industry, I know an awful lot about sex toys and how to use them!

Everything from toys for personal pleasure to toys for BDSM, I’ve been there and done that!

As a director, producer and sometimes performer, you can be sure the advice I give is factual and honest.

I share with you the industry’s professional tips and secrets so you can have the most erotic experience possible!